DESCRIPTION – Sometimes you feel disappointed that you were not chosen for a role of responsibility or privilege. But when feeling left out weighs you down, you may need to evaluate yourself and your relationship.
There is this role of godmother, godfather, witness, for which we were not chosen. This position or this file that wasn’t entrusted to us or this meeting that didn’t work out… For some people these missed opportunities are non-events or mostly disappointments. But for others, they prompt a disturbing observation. I’m never chosen. Psychologist Lyn Moore, however, confirms this. it is impossible to never be chosen for anything. Inevitably, there’s this apartment we got over multiple other applications, or this job we were hired for at the expense of other candidates. “Even when it comes to relationships, when we talk to people who complain about being single forever, we realize that we actually care, it’s just not mutual.” After all, the problem for a psychologist is not to never be chosen, but not to be chosen when…
Source: Le Figaro
