“He abandoned me with cancer”, says Preta Gil about the end of her marriage

Preta Gil He didn’t hide anything about the end of his eight-year marriage with Rodrigo Godoy. Despite her ex-husband’s betrayal with one of her great friends, the singer explained that the breakup happened before she found out about the extramarital affair.

She told what it was like to discover the betrayal. “As soon as it happens, you start to ask yourself ‘my God, what happened, what went wrong?’. When it starts to calm down, you start to remember things, various situations, and this situation… It took seven months for the guy to he was cheating on me, and I didn’t even suspect it, I was blind”said in an interview with Blogueirinha.

“I had a very trusting relationship with him, so I didn’t suspect anything. I started to have something with her, which is a feeling thing, and I started to have a fight with her, that she wasn’t going down on me, a My intuition, there wasn’t really anything, so much so that we stopped working together, but by then it was too late, they were already connected”said.

The singer said she kept the marriage because she believed it was just a crisis:“I followed the marriage, I’m not going to say it was good, but I thought it was a crisis, that we were going to resolve it, I was taking a lot in that direction, and there was no suspicion of betrayal. I thought he was going through a moment of crisis, so much so that we disconnected professionally to see if people would stop fighting. I thought it was something more like that and I didn’t care”.

“Obviously, now, when we find out, everything starts to make sense: that attitude, that way, that day. But what shocks me most about this story is not the betrayal. Betrayal happens, we are human, it is hypocritical to stay saying ‘oh, my God, you betrayed me’. Betrayal happens, the carnal thing, what for me is more serious is that you choose to betray several times, which is deceiving, manipulating, hiding”he said.

The artist spoke about how she expected her ex to behave: “Then comes the most serious thing of all, which is the moment of my diagnosis. Dude, okay, are you in love, do you have a crush on the girl? Tell her. You have two options: ‘Babe, darling, let’s take a break, because My wife, who I’m married to while I’m having an affair with you, is sick at home undergoing cancer treatment’. That’s one option, take a break, finish it, and then go get treatment, take care of your wife. with your wife, get along with her or separate.”

“Another option is, before all this, way back, because from what they say they started getting together in October last year, it’s been a year… You’ve fallen in love, are you willing to embark on this? Break up, it’s fine. You would suffer ? I was going to, but separate, man. Be a man. Does your wife have cancer? Ask your lover, tell her: ‘Girl, babe, darling, my sweetie, chuchuzinho, let’s take a break because I’m going to take care of my wife here ?”, he said.

Preta revealed that she broke up with her ex-husband before finding out about the betrayal: “He didn’t care. I make a point of saying this because this is the reality of many women in Brazil nowadays. Not nowadays, since forever. My diagnosis came in January, I separated from him first, before discovering the betrayal because He abandoned me with cancer, he literally abandoned me. He left, I stayed at home. My friends were starting to notice.”

“I thought [normal ele sair]. I actually said this to him: ‘Let’s get a therapist, I think my diagnosis is too heavy for you’. I often said to him ‘yes, really, the atmosphere here at home is tense, go to the pagoda with your friends, have a beer’. But this beer was drinking every day and there came a time when it started to irritate me”she said.

The singer said that her friends commented on the situation: “My friends didn’t tell me [do abandono] because I was sick and they were very afraid of my reaction. But they protected me, they came at me with everything they could. I was abandoned at home, there were these girls, my friends there, giving me baths and food, while he was on the street. I can’t think of this as normal.”

“Now on the internet there are people saying: ‘Oh, woman, get over it. You’re tired, repeating the soap opera episode’. F*ck you, you didn’t go through what I went through, you’re not here in my shoes. So, like this , will I overcome it? I will. Will that day come? It will. But it’s a process, this happened 7 months ago. In fact, that’s what you said. Deliverance, that part I already understand”, she fired about the hateful messages.