DESCRIPTION – In love, if opposites can attract you for a while, they can also become a real obstacle to your love life. Analysis by psychologist and family psychotherapist Camille Rochet.
There’s this little refrain in love that ensures opposites attract. “Something unconsciously draws us to difference, the idea that it allows us to grow, to improve,” comments psychologist and family psychotherapist Camille Rochet. Sometimes we even have an illusion that it can heal us. But doesn’t this configuration have limits? Don’t the fundamental differences between the two partners ultimately threaten to damage the couple?
When it comes to building something together, all the same, it would be better to have enough in common to make the relationship stable, the psychologist believes. “If you have to be in conflict every time, or even just a clash of ideas, to exist and find a compromise that works, the difference becomes annoying.” And can cause the couple to break up. In this situation, the psychologist claims that the fundamental problem is not…
Source: Le Figaro
