Why give gifts receive, less take

The new river is near. I want to put on this day a shadow on the divine, by itself, it needs to be appreciated in a special way.

Forget the night to be modest and not too clean like before. Have you thought about your feelings for the time of giving gifts? Ed O’Brien and Samantha Cassirer made a visnovka in the course of their social experiments in American schools, which gift givers were incredibly happy.

Golovne – it’s right to turn on the gift

Daruvati 一 is accepted. So that you can show people, how we love and appreciate them, they see blue themselves. Viraz is the face of otrimuvacha, if you find a gift, positively pours into our psychological self-understanding and launches endorphin wiki, calling a little pleasure and joy.

Most of us think: the more expensive the rich 一, the more we can show our turbota. It’s not like that. A direct fall between price and feelings in the form of a gift is not necessary.

To find the right gift at a distance, it is necessary to show not only the moment of delivery and the joy of the person. For otrimuvach important є, persh for all, greed in the form of a gift. A VIP subscription to an online cinema or a streaming service may not seem very effective, but if the addressee has any hits, it will certainly be evident.

Shukayuchi gifts to friends and relatives, we try to turn skin color one by one, the desire to stink can make the same speeches, as if you are effectively colored for them. Perekonannya, that gifts for everyone can be different, we will die.

So we rarely give speeches, like we have. If you want a friend to wear the same sneakers (the stench is like you for a long time!), And a friend – Korean cosmetics, we have admired EVA.UA for a long time. Be vigilant. Perhaps, you should confirm the choice of a gift in front of you.

Bezprograshne solution 一 mixed interest. Guess all the confusion, how to share with the addressee. The best idea in the future is to give a gift, for example, tickets to the ledge of a beloved group or a master class. Giving emotions, we become closer to people, so we do not take the fate of entering at once from him.

If there are no common interests, you can ask questions. Tse vvazhaєtsya obscene, na yakscho razіbratisya, all in such vіdvertostі will be more beautiful. Dosledzhennya showed that people are more likely to talk, they themselves asked about the stench.

If it’s too late, it’s not varto to get over it, like a smart person, that you worked hard to get, you will lose for zusilla.

The results of experiments on gifts

The follow-up Eating O’Brien and Samanthi Cassirer was published in the journal Association For Psychological Science. In an experiment, university students were divided into two groups. All participants generously collect $5 for five days. The first group spent money on themselves. Members of others gave people, for example, robbed of favorable contributions and deprived of tea.

For example, participants in the skin day of the same group are divided by pain. At the same time, all students consider the same day of happiness. Subsequent experiences showed that the quiet, who spent money on themselves, gradually reduced the savings, and from the quiet, who spent it on others, they were afraid of a soul search. On skin day, the stench became happy.

In another experiment, O’Brien and Cassirer changed their minds. The participants were again divided into two groups and challenged to play against the verbal online group. But now the skin itself is a moment of virishuvati, so to work with vigrash – remove yourself from helping other people. If the latter are filled with hatred, the result is similar to the final of the first experiment – a revel of joy for the silent, who gave a penny, more lowered, less for the silent, who removed themselves.

Behind the words of the authors, there is no clear explanation for the removal of visnovkas. Protest brings happiness to others for gifts of help, without hesitation, acceptance. So we feel emotional connections, which are very meaningful to ourselves, we will trust little girls and be happy with ourselves. Tilki all for one mind 一 give the need generously, from the heart.