Psychologist Alexander Bez spoke about the risks of those who suffer from hate attacks on the internet
Rafa Kalimann He went through some changes in his body and lost a few pounds.
By sharing a few clicks on their profiles on social networks, the formerBBB and presenter was detonated by some netizens.
The digital influencer was the victim of a series of hate attacks with messages that criticized her appearance.
the psychologist Alexander Bez explained about the dangers of aesthetic pressure imposed by society.
“We live in a social world and unfortunately the internet can be used for both good and bad, but people have to understand that criticizing someone else’s body is never an option to be followed. I believe that aesthetic pressure in society has already crossed the line in terms of lack of respect for the other, people talk without caring what the other will think, without knowing if it will affect the other or not, becoming bullying itself. There is a psychological mechanism called ‘Projection’, to which the human being attributes to another person his own feelings and motivations, that is, this is negative because the person puts in the other what he wants or does not want for him, people who have this active mechanism need treatment .”he explained.
The expert continued: “And for those who receive these attacks, the tip I give is really don’t let yourself be shaken, don’t read or even step away from the networks for a while if you can’t ignore certain comments, and keep in mind that the distillation of hate is part of the each person’s character, if you’re not a person with that type of character just don’t mix.”.
Alexander also commented on the danger of those on the other side of the small screen and being attacked online.
“Sometimes this need to distil hatred is an issue that is in the unconscious of each person, this is also part of the aforementioned Projection mechanism. But above all, such an attitude says a lot about the formation of individuals’ character, and also , as important as the lack of empathy, as the world is very lacking.”he said.
He continued: “People need to learn to put themselves more in the other’s shoes, before they start distributing judgments, imagine that infinite situations can be happening for the person to look a certain way, and only they themselves know if they are okay or not with themselves.”.
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Source: Maxima
