Parents often make the mistake of refusing to move to a safer place, the doctor says.
Doctor and TV presenter Evgeny Komarovsky listed the main mistakes of parents whose children suffered from the war in Ukraine. The corresponding video was published on his YouTube channel.
According to him, the most common are the treatment of children with sedatives, protection from talking to peers and the lack of adult conversations.
“I’ve been asked a lot about children in war: how calm a child is, what to do when they leave, when he stops shouting and crying at night, etc. The main thing is to think the child is more variable, resistant to emotional stress than the psyche of an adult.very fast, relatively speaking, it begins, falls into an incomprehensible physical state, but when the stressful effect has passed , when silence enters, the child recovers faster than an adult, ”he said.
The doctor added that attempts to treat with sedatives increase the risk of injury, and the emotional regulation of children depends on the behavior of the surrounding adults.
Komarovsky noted that parents often make mistakes when they refuse to move to safe areas where the child may be in a group of children with animators or teachers.
“You don’t send your child to a group of kids and say:” He doesn’t know the language, he’s a complete foreigner there, no one needs him there, let him be with us, we’re scared, we’ll be together. ” The earlier a child separates from a person who is afraid of having too much emotion, the faster he or she sinks into an environment where there are children who have not experienced stress, the faster he or she will recover, ”he said.
At the same time, the TV presenter emphasized that he was not a psychologist, but only expressed his opinion.
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Source: korrespondent
