ADVICES – Partners that have been installed in the normal mode can sometimes suffer from a lack of novelty. Couples’ life experts offer some keys to boosting everyday life.
There is something sweet, hopeful, comforting about a brand new routine created by two lovers in their first months as a couple. It’s strange, but after years of living together, the refrain is no longer the same. This same routine can give way to boredom. everyday life softens, lulls, even suffocates some. You don’t have to blame yourself, give up on yourself, or cry at the end of love. There’s nothing more normal, according to Dr. Avro Male-Karas, a neuroscientist and couples therapist. The fault, when the relationship lasts, “the defocusing of the couple from taking care of other things, generally career or hobbies”. The consequences? The partner, taken for granted, becomes lazy. “It looks like we are lying on the couch,” says sexologist and book author Kapusin Moro. Erotic creativity in a couple (1). As if the couple is nothing more than a place of rest. Some avenues can be explored to inspire movement…
Source: Le Figaro
