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Investigation – We carefully prepare his coming into the world. Painting your room walls to buy your clothes and, of course, choosing your future name. However, for many, this last decision is often synonymous with suspicion and indignation.
Marie * Was waiting on the first day of her life the date of her childbirth. He who had always dreamed of being a mother was going to give birth to his first child, a boy. Since it is common, he and his husband formed the list of their preferred first names, which, on the head of the line, the first name, which means Latin “the largest.” But only three months after childbirth, the husband raises doubts. “Extremely original”, too “braid”. Instead, he chooses Valentine. A simpler, more common name.
It’s a cold shower for Marie. The future mother hates this choice but gives love. He first tells himself that he is going to get used to it that he will succeed in cherishing him. But a few weeks after birth, he nourished a deep disappointment. Regret that forms a way of deteriorating such a wall between him and his child. “I was so disappointed and distressed, I was ashamed of his first name that did not correspond to me. It creates my life today …
Source: Le Figaro
