DESCRIPTION – It is possible to find the right answer within yourself, as long as you avoid the traps that our brain and our unconscious set for us.
No one knows better than us what is right for us. Provided, however, that you know how to listen to yourself and align between intuition, analysis and beliefs and other arrangements. “The mechanism of decision-making is complex, in addition to logical thinking, it includes emotions, memories, habits and the unconscious,” explains psychoanalyst Anne Marie Benoit. It is because we doubt, sometimes rightfully so, our ability to see things clearly and sort things out that we seek the opinions and advice of others.’ To find the right answer to our questions and other dilemmas within ourselves, we must first identify and avoid the following five pitfalls.
Stretch of sin
You are going to hurt someone, you don’t deserve it, it’s selfishness… In contrast to healthy guilt (I was wrong, I did harm, I lived badly), “unhealthy guilt prevents or punishes the subject who seeks or who found pleasure in whatever form it takes,” explains Anne-Marie Benoit. This…
Source: Le Figaro
