DESCRIPTION – Some breakups are harder to digest than others. What if the pain stems less from love for the ex-partner than from the trauma the self may have suffered from the breakup? Several signs make it possible to distinguish:
After a breakup, it can take weeks or even months for hearts to heal. Especially if you still feel love for the other person. Only sometimes, unknowingly, one confuses this pain with the pain associated with a damaged ego. Very often, a breakup can also affect the image a person has of themselves, intensifying the bad feeling. “As a couple, we feel at the center of each other’s lives, but when we break up, we lose this status overnight,” emphasizes Patrice Russ, speaker and author. Ego, friend or enemy? (1). In this sense, the end of a relationship can rekindle a common childhood wound for everyone, which occurs in childhood when we lose our privileges and realize that we are no longer the unique center of our parents’ world. When it comes to post-breakup pain, and while in most cases it’s both love and ego, some signs let…
Source: Le Figaro
