Non-merging intimacy
You tell each other everything, live close, share thoughts, hobbies and friends. You are the one. Except it takes two to make love. “This fused concept of intimacy is an active factor in the de-erotization of the couple,” explains psychoanalyst and psychotherapist Anne Marie Benoit. The other becomes another “I”, a kind of double, or else brother, sister. Desire fades before dying. This intimacy forbids any secret garden essential to maintaining the individuality, recharging the batteries, missing the other, and developing the relationship.
Antidote. Develop your personality. Psychotherapist Patrick Estrade compares lovers to two sailors on two ships who “leave port in the morning and meet again in the evening to share and exchange the riches and adventures of the day.” Under this condition, both sexologists and therapists agree that one can renew curiosity and taste for the other…
Source: Le Figaro
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