Influencer breaks taboo by telling the advantages and disadvantages of sex after 40

Carmen Reisis a digital influencer and drum godmother of Acadêmicos do Tatuapé. With more than 100 thousand followers on Instagram, she raises the flag for real bodies, and in addition, she highlights the perception of sexual experience that changes with age. Given this, she points out the positive aspects and challenges that will be faced.

So, recently, she shared with her followers an unusual list of the advantages and disadvantages after turning 40. The age at which maturity is reached also means carrying self-knowledge of your own body and a sense of security, which did not exist in previous stages of life.

She notes, “By 40, we know ourselves better and understand what works for us, both physically and emotionally.”

Vadvantages

Carmen points out that their self-knowledge of their body and their personal needs have increased, and that currently there is not so much pressure to meet external expectations.

“Maturity brings clarity about what we really like and what our limits are. This allows for a more honest and comfortable relationship with your partner. You stop worrying about looking perfect and focus on real pleasure. This is liberating”

Another point mentioned is how sex after 40 can be more intimate and emotionally involving. “Intimacy is more than physical. At 40, we begin to value this emotional connection, which makes sexual experiences more meaningful”, comments the influencer.

Disadvantages

Not everything is rosy, and one of the challenges faced by hormonal changes is the decrease in sexual desire, as a result of menopause or andropause. And he comments: “A decrease in desire is natural, but it does not mean the end of sexual life. Dialogue and, if necessary, medical support, can help maintain an active and pleasurable sexual life.”

The influencer also takes the opportunity to make a warning, which is the need to be more careful with your intimate health, using lubricants or even hormonal treatments. Therefore, it warns that our body needs to adapt and understand the care it needs to continue enjoying our sex life.

Finally, regarding what can impact the willingness to have sex, he notes:

The routine can be exhausting, but it is important to take time to take care of yourself and your relationship.” Knowing that it is very common for stress to be present on some days.

Carmen She takes advantage of her visibility on social media to address issues that are still considered taboo, by speaking openly about her sexual life at this age. In this way, she encourages and encourages women to feel more confident and secure in exploring their own bodies.