Communication and public speaking expert talks about what makes people good communicators
Communication is the essence of human development, and all behavior is communicative. In this sense, communication is synonymous with life, and at all times we are communicating something.
If we found a quiet person, extremely shy, trembling with fear and who spent all his time looking at the ground, we would say that he “does not communicate”, when in fact he is communicating his shyness, his fears, something of his personality, his state of mind. Therefore, everyone communicates, consciously or not.
attention and interest
If we hang a watermelon around our neck, we will attract everyone’s attention. However, we will not have anyone’s interest, as it can be a great way to get attention, but a bad way to turn attention into interest.
complete communication
When we speak, we must communicate with our eyes, with facial expression, with intonations and vocal inflections, with meaningful pauses, which are values in vocal “musicality”, and with appropriate gestures. Even in silence lies the most solemn form of communication.
unreceptive message
In the process of communication, we have the sender and the receiver. You, in front of your interlocutor, send a message acting in the role of sender; and he, as a receiver, however, may not be receptive in the sense of being open to you.
When we communicate badly, others can stop being receptive and even receptive. Maybe they can stare at us, but simply turn their thoughts elsewhere, psychologically distancing themselves.
psychological distances
In front of a huge audience, I can be geographically distant from the last person, however, if he is attentive to my words, we are psychologically close. The reverse is true for someone ahead of me; if you are not connected to me, we have physical closeness, yet long psychological distance. O good communicator he is the one who sticks to shortening psychological distances.
By Letterino Santoro– communication and oratory specialist
Source: Maxima
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