Holidays or dinners. What if we forgot the cord organization for more relief and exchange? American author Priyya Parker, a gathering artist, helps us find a feeling of reference.
All kinds of celebrations with a beautiful season return to Gallop. Weddings, Bachelor’s Parties, Ritual Ritual Angeris, Neighboring Festivals, Invitations, Grandpa and Grandpa’s House in the House of Long Family … So after this dinner, we were happy to wait for this frustrating feeling that at midnight heard the disables … Fireworks shot in a long tunnel. Many millimeters, accurate.
American Priian Parker, who has long since worked “re-equipment of our rallies” – is being studied The art of being with others In a recently translated book. Art that seems to be lacking more and more. He explains, sometimes by radical method, as (again) give meaning to our common moments. There is no need, for this, a place of madness, state-of-the-art house or Ibiza’s DJ … on the contrary. “Insufficient involvement will never be completed in front of it,” he said. A real cold shower for perforists, always on the edge of “overvaluation.” In fact, those who did not feel one day, the pure grace of the improvised evening, the ten-Armenian fifteen-in-one, and was fabulous. Without a must seek the “recipe” of these moments. There is none. – Priy Parker invites us to approach it deeply when we imagine and live in our friendly, family, ceremonial or less official meetings …
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The first “mistake” – human, many people. “It will be very little to think about” Why? “We collect these people and at that moment,” said Priyya Parker. His daughter’s marriage or spouse’s birthday. For the author, this is a “category” of an event, but in no case a meeting “goal”. Take a class of the classic birthday celebrating a decade. His goal and his protocol seems obvious. Glorify this passage with a well-calibrated fiesta with his bubbles, cake and leave me “Leave Me”. They resumed by friends … The next day, a rare feeling, barely feeling that we are going on a real life course with our favorite. If we showed ourselves to “around us only people who make us better” or “reunited with friends of the beloved youth.” These are only examples that felt much bigger. Ditto for a family dinner. Is it a matter of always redesigning the same or fewer folk jokes or to give a real space of each word without FAWALLS? “We need to avoid treating roles and try to unite really,” he said. That’s why Priya Parker first offers to take care of invitations, dare to say. – a white dress code (which shaves everyone as a bonus).
This “intention” expressed, of course, a little amazing the usual, so the French discretion, creates different expectations, richer than the minitimisu is completely delicious. Start celebrations with everyone’s sincere joke. “What is the funny memory with me?” Your worst trouble with us. – a game that leads to humor, a short, new ephemer, inexpressible, non-material and technical rituals, greatly advanced to “generous power.” It is no more than less, when we assume the host host, protect and “save” its guests from all bad atmosphere. those who only talk about themselves to the left of the charm to charm glareParents who only speak about their talented generations, graduates from here and etc., none of them are aware of their annoyance. “The host depends on their leaks and create its rules, depending on the circumstances.” And so, dare to start a small contradiction to awaken the spirits or decide to change the area between each dish … Because Fria Parker concludes well.
The art of being with others. Give meaning to your total moments, Fanny Auger and Priya Parker, Eyrolles Editions, 336 pages, 22 euros.
Source: Le Figaro
