Testimonials – Massage, epilate, deletes … Beyond technical gestures, beauties collect our secrets and complications. Five of them tell what they really think when the door closes.
We are on a narrow table, under the body, a single sheet of newspapers, hot light on us, and we close our eyes. The scent of essential oils fills the room. Behind us, special gestures are connected, the soft sound assures. This voice is aesthetic. His fingers touch our skin, press it, sometimes it tears it. In this advertisement, what do these specialists feel? What do they perceive our body, our hair, our pain? What do they think when they shoot a candle ribbon? At the moment, Nicole, 73 is found guilty. For forty years, he has done the profession of Estetetics, what he has never supported is damaged. “I was shy, and I used to say that” Ouch “, before the customer says it,” he said. I felt that. Hotspent
Unique neighborhood
With the experience, the beauties will know about the pile to divide their pain and also from nakedness. Many people remember their first confusion hair, especially in front of the opposite sex. Nicole confirms:
The male customer, 47-year-old Sophie, made it its place. He has been threatening his back in Tulon’s office since 2007, with tournaments of torrents, monsters of the gentlemen, which has developed in itself. But it took time before coming to such a detachment, he accepts. “At first, I did nightmares every night to see the gender of the man. I had to rebuild a lot of things, my taboos, my Catholic culture. It’s a real job.
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By anthropologist Ellisabeth azoulay at the origin of the collective work 100. 000 Beauty (1) This aesthetics is one of the rare professions that are displaced to intimate in the literal sense. “Here we are violating the usual social norms of distance and restraint. Customer connection is associated with an unprecedented neighborhood. We touch, we are talking about we celebrate the holy sphere. “
What does the body say without talking
This field is the body. The one we look at we judge we are trying to change. Beauties examine it. A young 24-year-old specialist Manon has no time, he said with his twenty customers a day. “We continue, so I don’t look at them anymore. I see the hair and areas that need to work, not people. “I’m not a traveler, but a beautiful body, beautiful skin, always nice. Like painting, “he smiles.
For Sophie The Toulonnaise, the body is a language and touches it, reading. Extremely steep customer. “He spends his life in front of a computer.” Damaged legs. “I’m thinking about the pocket of the pocket.” “I often know that Job is the customer just touching him if he works, if he has a neck napht.”
I’m not a traveler but nice body, beautiful skin, always nice
Nicole, 73 years old
Other diseases are revealed in the care table. Beauty grains, scars, signs of pregnancy, stretching training, blue. Happens to have a barrier to touch them. 47-Old-Old Expert remembers this 150 kilograms of women, for example, who has first massaged. “I was connected to him,” says Sophie. His body was fine, I have massed for a long time, he cried. He told me he was never touched upon. Hotspent
Behind Decor
But integration has its failures. There are days when the flesh of the body attracts the entire area. Sophie speaks of these obvious impeccable customers, brand clothing, stilettos, perfect brushes, but whose legs “feel death than a site boy.” Almost everyone is against it. Some have fun, others learn from it. Nicole then delivers everything to files. “A strong smell. Provide ventilation. “Sometimes when it’s too much, I prudently put the menthol oil under your nose,” said young Manony.
The lack of hygiene is really a dead corner of the profession. One of them we are not talking to customers, but who can give birth to anger, because sometimes it reveals due to lack of recognition. “When the customer returns from the beach, full of sand, hair removal, no. I will not give up here, “says Nicole. In Marseilles, 34-year-old Anna celebrates vaginal losses, as well as all sisters of interrogated. “Some women don’t realize, others don’t think. And it is not a problem with the environment, too far away. Just to get the message without saying it.
There are many jokes, sometimes fun, sometimes stunning. Some cause intimidated appearance or gestures, especially from men. Those who want to tear off them from pinzets of tests or those who confuse the removal of hair and sexual completion. Sophie tried these places. “The customer moved at the time. He said he said:
The weight of life
But the heaviest thing is not so much, what they see they are listening. Pain, stratification, leaving the cabin into confession. “The customer told me during the jersey time:” I’m not sleeping with my husband anymore. “One told me that he was cheating with his colleague, and I am the only man who knows,” says Manon.
Sophie is used to it. “Estaian can become what her mother is a child. He who touches who speaks gently, who he is, but in reality?
I washed it, I made it, it was comforted. He came out to different
Malika, 54 years – Esthetician
However, none of these customers measure their poured emotional load. “Because we are no one for them, we can hear everything,” Sophie said. Pair problems, sexual disappointments, family secrets … Nicole has long brought the weight of those trusts. “When a woman was beaten in tears in the cabin, we don’t know what to do but listen. And when he comes out of it, we don’t sleep at night, “he said. “It’s the profession, so emotionally tiring,” Malika is abundant, 54-year-old year aesthetic. You need to know how to make pains that are entrusted to us, otherwise they are built. Hotspent
Spiritual
Some are formed to greet all that better. Sophie is currently a university degree in social psychology. “It simply came to our notice then. We can’t hear so much without tools, “he said. Others change ways. Like Malika, which has become a socio-painting for fifteen years. He works in hospital, in the reintegration center, at the pension house. Here, no longer selling or promoting. We are repairing. Admission, massage, manicure become gestures of mankind. Numbers, scars and tattoos take another meaning. “The woman in depression, who came with dirty hair and stained glass, said we cried.” I am a trash, “he said.
At the institute, these training courses opens different aesthetic, care, trade and social intersection. Most of the specialists remained faithful to him and claimed that this side of the profession would be better recognized. Because their role is not limited to skin. To help customers a little more to love one another without judging them. And when the door closes behind them, everyone hopes that he leaves a little light (e).
Source: Le Figaro
